At DEGIS, we believe in sharing the real, unfiltered stories of international students shaping Germany’s future. In this interview, Mithil Barath opens up about his journey as a queer international—from rural East Germany to building inclusive spaces and raising a family in Cologne.
1. You’ve had quite a journey—moving to Germany as a student, staying to work, and now building a life and family here. How has your experience as a queer international shaped your personal and professional path in Germany?
Mithil: My journey to Germany wasn’t planned, it was love that brought me here. I had been living in Hungary, and when my now-husband and I decided to build a future together, I moved to Schmalkalden, a small town in eastern Germany, to start university. That transition wasn’t easy. The culture shock was real, and as a queer international, I often felt invisible. The social climate was conservative, and there wasn’t much space for people like me.
But I didn’t let that stop me. I carved out my own space, both personally and professionally. Eventually, I co-founded the DEGIS chapter in Schmalkalden, creating a platform for international and queer students like myself who were craving connection.
Now, we’ve moved to Cologne, a city that feels much more like home. It’s where I work, raise my twin baby girls (yes, twins!), and finally feel like I can breathe a little easier. But the journey through visas, marriage registration, and endless paperwork? A whole challenge on its own.
Still, every obstacle has made me stronger and more determined to create spaces where queer internationals aren’t just surviving, but thriving. My story isn’t the exception. It’s one of many. And it’s time we make that more visible.
2. Can you tell us about a moment—within DEGIS or beyond—when you truly felt seen and supported as a queer person in Germany? What made that moment meaningful for you?
Mithil: When I started university in Schmalkalden, there was no space for internationals, let alone queer students. I looked around and realized no one was coming to create that space for us. So, I reached out to multiple organizations, and DEGIS was the one that answered.
That response changed everything. With a few other students, I helped launch DEGIS Schmalkalden. We started small, but it grew into something powerful and today, it has over 50 volunteers and a full board. From that, we built clubs and safe spaces for marginalized voices, including one specifically focused on queer expression and the arts.
That moment of being seen, of seeing others show up and build alongside me, was deeply meaningful. For the first time, I felt like I wasn’t just existing in Germany. I was part of something. I was helping to shift the narrative.
3. You’ve led some important initiatives within DEGIS. What motivated you to bring LGBTQAP+ topics into our network, and what impact do you think these initiatives have had so far?
Mithil: What motivated me was simple: silence is never neutral. If we’re not talking about queer topics—especially in international spaces—we’re ignoring a huge part of people’s lived experiences.
I brought LGBTQAP+ issues into DEGIS because I didn’t want another student to feel the kind of isolation I once did. That meant organizing safe groups for expression, pushing for visibility during Pride, and making space for people to share their stories with no filter, no shame.
The impact? It’s in the people who message me after an event saying, “I finally felt seen today.” It’s in the growing number of queer internationals stepping into leadership. It’s in DEGIS showing up—not just during Pride Month—but throughout the year. There’s still so much to do, but we’ve made real progress. And I’m proud to be part of that shift.
4. In your view, how does Germany compare to other places when it comes to creating a safe and inclusive environment for queer internationals? Where are we doing well, and where is there still work to do?
Mithil: I’ve traveled across Europe, the Americas, and Asia, and while I hoped Germany would feel more inclusive, the reality is mixed. Yes, cities like Cologne and Berlin offer more visibility and access. But move outside those bubbles, and it’s a different story.
In smaller towns—especially in the East, being queer and international can still feel like an uphill battle. You’re navigating cultural differences, legal systems, and social stigma all at once.
Germany has made some progress: healthcare is accessible, same-sex marriage is legal, and Pride is celebrated in major cities. But legal rights don’t always translate into lived equality, especially for trans people, BIPOC queer folks, and non-EU internationals.
If Germany wants to live up to its progressive image, it needs to do more than tolerate queer people, it needs to actively support and protect them. Right now, that support is uneven at best.
5. Looking ahead, what kind of support or changes would you love to see from communities like DEGIS to better uplift and empower queer international students and professionals?
Mithil: I’d love to see DEGIS create more dedicated spaces for queer students—spaces that aren’t just inclusive but intentional. We need recurring events, mentorship programs, mental health support, and collaborations with LGBTQ+ and trans-led NGOs.
Let’s not wait for Pride Month to show support. Let’s weave queer inclusion into everything, from career panels to leadership programs. Let’s fund projects by queer internationals. Let’s invite them to lead, not just participate.
The truth is, queer internationals carry unique strengths: adaptability, courage, creativity. But we also carry unique burdens. DEGIS has the platform to be a true ally, not just in words, but in action.
And I do believe it’s moving in that direction. I’ve seen it. I’ve helped shape it. But let’s keep pushing, bigger, bolder, and with all the love and fire we’ve got.
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